10 Signs Your Guy Friend Wants to Be Your Boyfriend

By Amy North
From Devotion System

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10 Signs Your Guy Friend Wants to Be Your Boyfriend

You see it in movies and TV shows all the time the guy who is secretly in love with his female friend. Believe it or not that scenario happens quite often in real life, you just have to know how to spot it.

In this article, we’ll talk about the ten signs that your guy friend wants to be your boyfriend.

Now, I know this sounds crazy but I’m sure there have been many situations where you felt romantically about a male friend too, so then if there’s a guy in your life who is currently your friend then watch for these signs to see if he wants to be something more.

#1. He Doesn’t Talk About or Mention Other Women Around You

Guys are known for talking about women especially when they’re in the company of friends, if your guy friend never gets in on the gossip when you’re around then it could be because his eyes are set on you.

This also applies for dating, if he’s never going out with other women or shows little interest in hooking up with anyone then again it could be because you were the one he’s waiting it out for.

#2. He Does Coupley Things With You

Whether it’s bra shopping, pumpkin picking or being your date for Thanksgiving dinner, a guy friend that’s willing to stick out a couple of stuff with you is doing so because he secretly wants to be your boyfriend.

Think about it for a moment, how many guys actually wanna go see the latest chick flick or think attending a wine and paint party would be fun?

Not many, if he’s willing to be your plus one then chances are he’s secretly wanting more than a friendship with you.

#3. He Remembers Things

So, you told them about your bad airplane experience as a kid, your favorite ice cream flavor or have certain songs make you want to cry and he remembers everything

When a guy not only listens to you but also remembers what you tell him is for a reason, think for a moment about how many conversations your guy friend or anyone for that matter has had over the course of say a week or month lots, right?

Well some of those conversations stick others don’t. So, when a man remembers something you’ve told him it’s because he is mentally noted your story, why? Because it means something to him.

For instance, think about the difference between an acquaintance or friend and a boyfriend, the difference between what an acquaintance our friend remembers versus what a boyfriend remembers is infinite.

So, if your guy friend knows you inside and out it’s because he’s taking the time to log the things you tell him because he cares about you and probably wants to be your boyfriend

#4. He Flirts With You

Now, this one may be tougher to spot especially if you’re really close friends with the guy but if you notice that he’s recently become flirty with you then it could be his way to gauge your feelings towards him or to hit that he’s into you.

You have to give them credit here because it takes guts to do this especially since there was a friendship at stake, if you’re into him too then go ahead and flirt back when you do sparks will fly.

#5. He’s Touchy With You

Have you noticed that your guy friend tends to stand close to you, hugs you whenever he sees you or finds reasons to touch say your armor back?

If so, it could very well be because he’s romantically into you, now it’s important to pay attention to whether or not he’s like this with others too.

If he is then it could just be his personality however if you’re the only one he’s getting physical with then you should know why.

#6. He’s Protective of You

So, he finds that you’re going on a date, has twenty questions about who the guy is or better yet he knows you’re seeing someone with a bad rep and voices it’s concerns over you getting hurt.

If your guy friend is constantly guarding your heart and standing up for you then it’s probably because he has feelings for you, if he sees what a prize you are then he’s going to want to make sure that no one takes advantage of you.

Although he may seem overbearing at times don’t push him away, he only wants what’s best for you and he may think that’s him.

#7. He Looks For Your Approval

Women are notorious for asking if they look or for input when it comes to men in relationships, guys , on the other hand,tend to care less about these sorts of things.

I mean most of your guy friends aren’t going to ask for your opinion when it comes to buying a new outfit and few will worry about your opinion when musical tastes or even women they’re dating for that matter, why?

Because you’re just friends so then if your guy friend is looking for approval it’s probably because he’s subtly trying to impress you or perhaps even attract you.

#8. He Compliments You or Better Yet He Notices the Little Things

As you’ve probably experienced at some point or another, guys are notorious for overlooking things, in fact one time I went from being a brunette to being a redhead and it took my male boss three weeks to notice.

If your guy friend picks up on the little things, be you glasses or frames or a different perfume it’s because he notices the little things about you and he does so because he’s into you

If he’s quick to compliment you any time, he sees you then chances are he’s got it bad for you.

#9. He Acts Like a Gentleman Around You

He holds open the door, picks up checks and chooses his words wisely around you, rarely do you hear him say anything rude or inappropriate and he’s always the best listener in other word he respects you.

In fact, he may even make the guys you date look bad because he’s the perfect date who knows this level of respect for you could be the reason he hasn’t made a move on you.

Now last but certainly not least…

#10. He Always Has Time For You

A guy friend who wants to be your boyfriend will always have time for you it doesn’t matter what time of day or night it is, you can call him he’ll answer where the very least call you back the moment he sees you’re trying to reach him.

If you need someone to vent to about your terrible day or want to talk about life’s problems he’ll be the first to listen and will do whatever he can to put a smile on your face.

What I’m getting at is that if your guy friend is willing to drop what he’s doing to be there for you or makes his own plans based around your availability then yes, he wants to be your man.

Don’t mistake this for friendship if these signs are there there’s clearly more to the picture.

If you notice your guy friend is into you, wants to be your boyfriend, then it’s very important that you think about what you want before you make a move.

After all you don’t want to lose a great friend in the process so be fair to him and don’t let him along or take advantage.

Before I go, I wanted to remind you not to forget to watch my video below. You’ll definitely learn lots of valuable information here… 

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