By Alex Carter
Author of Make Him Desire You
There is one simple trick that can make any man beg for your attention. Check out the video below to learn more…
3 Ridiculous Tricks To Make Him Ache With Pure Love For You
One of the biggest mistakes women make with men is thinking that attraction is a choice.
A man will never tell himself, “After going through the evidence, I can safely conclude that (insert your name here) is the best suitable candidate to be my partner.”
When it comes to dating and attracting men, you need to throw logic out the window.
There’s no convincing a guy that you’re the right one for him.
Instead, you need to appeal to his more primal side. He’s subconsciously looking for the woman who will flip the right switches in his head.
Once you do this, he’ll practically be compelled to pursue you.
When he’s in the right emotional state, it won’t be a matter of choice anymore. He’ll try to win you over like his life depended on it.
So how do you make a guy feel all the right things and get him to beat a path to your door?
Just follow these 3 steps to ignite his red-hot desire for you…
Step 1 – Trigger a sense of positive discomfort in his mind.
You must be thinking – Wait a minute! How can discomfort be positive and why would I want to
make a guy uncomfortable?
Well, there is an age-old psychological concept which states that as humans we value the very
thing we have to work hard for. Men are genetically programmed to value the very thing
they can’t have.
Now I am not saying that you should play hard to get and make him run after you. That concept is a
myth and can actually turn a guy completely off.
What I am talking about is a cocktail of pleasure and discomfort mixed in together. It basically
means that you make him feel 90% pleasure mixed with 10% discomfort.
This cocktail creates an intense sense of passion within a man’s body that is just hard to control.
This tunes up his emotional intensity towards you and he feels this hot, raw and intense love for
you which is addictive and almost irreplaceable.
In fact, this concept works so well that he will actually enjoy chasing you and will get a special
kind of feeling which will get him addicted to pursuing you.
I know it sounds weird right now, but I’ll show you a super easy way to put it into action soon. But before that, let me get to our second step.
Step 2 – Re-frame his point of view…
Have you ever seen a guy who went completely nuts over a certain girl even though she wasn’t that
good looking or smart and did you find yourself thinking – What does he see in her? She isn’t even
The important point to note here is that in your point of view, she might not be that attractive or
special but that specific guy is seeing her through a completely different lens. He is seeing
things in her that you might not see at all.
Now the good news is that you can use re-framing to change a guy’s views about you, and make him find
you absolutely attractive, irresistible and exceptionally special even if you aren’t that good
looking, skinny or smart.
You see, by making small easy adjustments in your personality, you can make a guy think that you are
one of the most interesting women he’s ever come across, and not only that, you can actually make
him see you as this special, one in a million woman he would be lucky to have in his life.
I’ll soon show you a super easy method to re-frame his view of you completely, and establish yourself
as his only and best possible choice. But before that, let me give you the 3rd and final step.
Step 3 – Appeal to the masculine part of him.
Every guy is born with a protector instinct, his job in the “early man days” used to be to protect
the family from predators.
If you can awaken the masculine part of a man completely, he would feel a gut-level desire to protect
you and do nice things for you.
Once this part awakens, he will go out of his way to do loving things for you and will even feel
obligated and responsible for your well being. In fact, this is one of the most little-known secrets
to truly making a man fall in love with you.
Most women feel that in order to get a man to love them, they should do a lot of nice things, dress
sexy etc, but the reality is that, all that can actually repulse him.
Since every man is a born hunter, he is a provider at his very core and he will feel a lot of pleasure
when you let him take care of you by appealing to the masculine part of him.
Now you must be thinking, “Alright, I understand that I have to trigger a sense of positive
discomfort in his mind, re-frame his point of view and awaken the masculine part of him…but I am
still a little confused because I don’t know exactly what to do.”
Good question, here is the answer…